Yesterday was a horrific day. Yet
another shameful rape was committed in Delhi on yet another innocent young girl.
As if this was not shameful (and painful) enough, our politicians yet again attempted
to score brownie points against each other. And our media yet again lost its
balance and behaved churlishly, allowing itself to be exploited by politicians
and failing to conduct any meaningful debates that could provide solutions for
the future. For TV, it was a great way to earn some TRPs and consequent
advertising rupees; for politicians yet another forum to play their dirty
games.
Everyone missed the point. Too
much focus was placed on Delhi being the crime capital. Of course it is, but
that’s old news. It has been so for decades. Having lived in Delhi and Mumbai
both, I know how my wife feels about going back there. I also know what it is
like for women to travel alone in Delhi; and how dressing restrictions get
imposed on them thanks to the lecherous goons on the streets. But its not as if
this rape could not have happened in any other metro in the country. In fact, almost
every month, there are stories of similar incidents from Mumbai, Bangalore, Kolkata
and every other large town in the country. Why single Delhi out then?
Then our politicians. All of them
grandstanded in Parliament and pretended like they would explode with anger. It
made me wonder if this was the first rape case that had occurred in India; or
even the most gruesome. Had they not found Pallavi Purkayastha’s rape and
murder in Mumbai a few months back worthy enough of a similar exercise? How
many rapes have happened right under the noses of our MPs since they came to
Delhi? Why this sudden outrage? I can tell you this wasn’t the proverbial last
straw that broke their back. I will tell you the real reason. Our politicians
don’t care about the rape or the victim. But they care about the political
opportunity that the rape has created. They know that there are elections
approaching in Delhi. Nothing like an emotive issue to kick-start the election
campaign. Wait and watch. More and more drumbeats will be heard against the
Delhi government in the days to come. This rape was just the beginning.
All that the politicians were
interested in doing last night was criticizing Sheila Dixit. Of course the CM
of Delhi is responsible for the law and order situation in her state; and at an
appropriate time, she must answer questions and give comfort to her people about
what she will do to make their city a safer place. But doesn’t decency demand
that this be done at an “appropriate” time? Should we attack her first or
should we express concern for the poor victim first? Not one TV channel wanted
to discuss the victim’s plight or condition; except when news came that she was
in fact not doing well. That kind of tragedy builds TRPs and it was flashed on
screens eagerly. The most insensitive of all politicians were the ones from BJP,
keen opponents as they are of the Congress in Delhi. They finally got the chance
to attack Sheila Dixit (remember they couldn’t lay their hands on her for the
CWG scam). For Smriti Irani, putting on a dour face with overtones of anger may
come naturally; but let me say that she looked more fake than even as an actor.
C’mon guys, have some decency. Discuss the issue; keep the politics for another
day.
And then the display of what can
best be described as “testosterone” politics. The BJP demanded capital
punishment for rape. Now outraged as I am at this rape, I do believe our
politicians must carry a cool head on their shoulders. They are leaders after
all. They have to handle issues maturely, even in the face of grave
provocation. There are many different types of crimes, all gruesome; and while
rape is surely one of those extreme types, it is lower on the crime totem pole than
terrorism and homicide. We cannot let our emotions get the better of us. If we
continue like this, we will soon become like Afghanistan, where anything and
everything is considered fit for capital punishment by the Taliban. In the
past, some voices have urged that even drunken drivers should be given the
death penalty. Anna felt that even the corrupt should be given the death
sentence. Religious bigots may demand the death penalty for adultery. I am
sorry, but I am totally against capital punishment, except for terrorists. For
rape, there is a much better solution already available: chemical castration. Get
the guy’s libido; but spare him his life.
Coming now to media. Why did TV
channels not keep the discussion apolitical? Why did they allow politicians to make
it into a partywise slugfest? TV channels are not fools. They did it because
they knew that the incident had the potential of becoming the flavor of the
evening. And on a day when nothing else as sensational happened (after all who
cares for important financial bills being passed), they found this to be the
best thing to do. Shameful to say the least. The level to which our TV media
can stoop should make us all sit up and demand something be done.
Like I said the real issues all
got skirted. Kiran Bedi made some sensible points (for a change) saying that it
was the responsibility of parents to raise their boys well. I totally agree. I
have myself held the belief that we may have progressed economically as a
nation, but we haven’t progressed one bit socially. A friend recently pointed
out a term that exists for this gap between economic and cultural progress. It
is called the “cultural gap”. Unfortunately, most of our media and politicians work
towards increasing the cultural gap. What this country needs is social reforms
and social reformers who can bridge the gap. It’s a real tragedy that the only
self-proclaimed social reformers we have are the types of Anna – who prefer to
beat people who consume liquor with belts. Better not to have such reformers. We
need reformers who can talk to society about unpleasant things; and compel it
to change. For rape is as much a reflection of our society as it is of lax
policing, bad governance and lousy politicians.
If we have to avoid this problem
from becoming bigger, we have to start immediately. We have to start in our
schools. I remember having a subject called “moral science” when I was in
school. Much as I found it a bore in those days, I think it helped me become a
better person. I am sure most schools don’t teach this subject any longer. Why
then are we surprised when some of these kids grow up and become rapists? We
also have to look at society’s attitude to women in general. Women are treated
like objects in this country, traded between families for dowry. And when women
complain, they are attacked like two days back in Mumbai when Sonal Lapashiya
(mistaken by the attacker to be his wife) was attacked with a sickle for filing
a dowry complaint against her husband. One police commissioner after another
makes comments to the effect that women are themselves responsible for their
rapes by dressing inappropriately. And think of this. After so many years, we
still haven’t been able to remove khaps. These khaps often order hits on young
couples who refuse to obey pre-historic social restrictions. Some khaps in UP
have also said that women should not wear jeans and shouldn’t carry mobile
phones. Lets accept it. We are a depraved society. That’s why we need social
reform, not capital punishment.
Then we have to look at fast
tracking our judicial system. I am appalled at the slow pace at which our
judiciary works. And of course, no one can question it. No one can demand
accountability from it. When an Indian student was murdered recently in the UK,
the courts there brought the culprit to book in just six months. Our system
would have taken decades. We also have to think about our policy of
reservations. When a majority of cops are recruited on grounds other than
merit, how can we expect better policing or investigations?
The real truth is that we are
ourselves responsible for the rapes that happen in our country. We have brought
this state of affairs upon us knowingly. We cannot pretend to be surprised or
shocked. We are all guilty of this. We, the people, our politicians, and our
media. All of us should hang our heads in shame. Lets look inwards for a change
and decide not to allow this mess to continue any more.
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